Politics - it is same everywhere

This is an election year in America, people here will vote to elect new or reelect the current president. The race is heating up, TV ads are growing, and soon debates will start. Recently, Republicans and Democrats both finished their conventions. I was listening to some of the speeches that were delivered at these conventions. I was surprised to hear the quality of these speeches, most of them were full of self-praise, the speakers were challenging the emotions of the audience, and they were full of artificial emotions. How will you feel when the wife of a billionaire says that she knows how it feels to make both ends meet, she claims to understand the struggle common men and women face in day-to-day life and height is that people clap for this and some of them even cry after hearing this? Some speakers make free reference to their religious beliefs. I personally believe that religion and politics should not be mixed together but unfortunately, almost in every country religion plays a dominant role in politics. They harped about their personal success stories, achievements, family members, and many other things that are not at all relevant to politics and the issues that this country is facing today. Even the candidate's wife spoke about them. I wonder why they have to speak about their husband at a political rally? Why is it required? What people expect to hear from them except unrestricted praise for their husbands and families. No doubt that some of the speeches were excellent but for me most of them were disappointing and sounded very staged and artificial.

Presidential debates are fun to watch and are a very important part of the presidential election in the USA. I wish something like this they start in India. I used to think that politics in the US is fought at a different level and with a different style than in India, but it's not true. It's all the same. In India where I live (Maharashtra) that state has produced many great orators and I have heard many of them, even many current political leaders can deliver much better (or at least similar) speeches than what we heard at these conventions. I wonder how American people tolerate all this nonsense. Maybe because they don't have many parties to choose from, sadly they have only two choices and that's why they cheer whatever they listen to as they know that this is all one can get. These conventions made one thing very clear if politics in India is dirty then here it's not that different.

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When I felt like a foreigner in my own country

This week I came back to New Haven from my India visit. I try to visit India at least once in two years. Every visit is special and full of many, many good memories. I have a very strong attachment with my friends, relatives, parents and this place itself that I can't stay away for very long, this country pulls me back from wherever I am. 

No doubt that India is changing, and it's changing fast. The effect of globalization is seen everywhere. Cities are expanding like anything, villages are shrinking, greenery is disappearing from cities and is being replaced by huge buildings, vehicles on roads are increasing, all major fast food chains have their shops at every corner in all major cities, any brand in fashion or automobile you can get very easily now, spotting Mercedes or BMW on the road is no more a surprise. This all in just the last 9 years since I left the country, all this was bound to happen, and change was bound to come, and I welcome this change but I have somewhat mixed feelings about this rapid change for various reasons. I think the problem is the change is mostly superficial. I see that India is changing physically very fast but most other things are still as it is or may be going from bad to worse (just my personal analysis). No doubt that money inflow and circulation have increased in India, the mentality to save money for the future is long gone and consumerism is at its peak. I like it when I see that people are living comfortable lifestyles and can afford many comforts and luxuries that were out of their reach just a few years ago.

Many people are trying to ape Western countries blindly, fast food chains and global soft drink brands have replaced local brands. Even many Indians now prefer to drink mineral water outside their homes, that's a huge surprise for me. But still, there is no concern for the environment or a philanthropic mindset. Any festival season or long weekend results in huge cash collections in many famous temples across the country. People go out of their way to donate money to these religious organizations without being bothered about what these organizations do with all this money. Mostly this money or donations are offered to get something from God, many people who indulge in corruption donate heavily to these organizations and think that they washed their dirty hands and are free to carry on their loot. This is the sick mentality and it should change, donations should be for good causes not for selfish reasons.

When I saw all these things, for a moment I felt like a foreigner in my own country because I couldn't relate to all these things. I was wondering if is this the same place where I was born and brought up. No doubt the place has changed drastically but this change is not from within, it's just an external makeover. Still, there are undercurrents of casteism wherever you go, even elite universities and institutions are not free from these things. If educational institutes are polluted like this then how one can expect students coming out from these institutes to have unbiased views? I saw even small kids have very negative opinions about other communities and people from other religions. I was wondering from where they learn all these things? Why their parents don't take special care so that their kids don't get trapped in a negative mindset about people around them? Don't we have to develop our thinking along with material developments?

India is a country of diverse cultures and languages but this diversity itself has created many problems. We failed to take advantage of this diversity, rather we are stuck with the mindset of protecting our own identity (in terms of cast, religion, region, or language). These challenges are unique for India and I strongly believe that Indians are capable of handling them. Anti-corruption movement started by Anna Hazare and his group is a good initiative in this direction. At least someone is trying to change the system rather than just complaining and blaming it.

But please don't get a pessimistic view about India. It is much more than the problems that I stated above, it's the largest democracy in the world and it's not easy to manage so many people with different cultures, languages, and religions. It's a unique example where people can live happily despite so many problems and hurdles in their lives. 

Sometimes I do feel like a stranger in my own country but the very next moment I realize that I belong there, among all the chaos, noise, dust, and crowds resides a country that I love and care about. I know as a nation we face many problems and some tough challenges but I am also confident that we can handle it and this trip made my belief even stronger. I didn't come disappointed but I came full of optimism and hope.


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Value and need of money

One thing I realized during my stay in India for the last few weeks is that the value of money has decreased but its need and importance have increased a lot. Things are getting expensive day by day. Real estate prices are increasing every minute in some big cities like Pune and Mumbai. There seems to be a race to earn money in whatever way one can. The competition is so fierce and tough that people don't even have time to relax and think which way they are going and what will be the consequences of their actions. India is known for spirituality, its simplicity as well as poverty. One can clearly see the effect of globalization on the Indian economy and its people. Things are changing and they are changing very fast, many things have improved, and at the same time, many have deteriorated. One can notice the speed of development by the amount of construction work going on around the Pune area. Huge multistory buildings are being constructed and trees are vanishing fast because of that, even beautiful hills are getting occupied by bungalows, and even after so much construction demand for apartments and land has not decreased a bit. I don't know if anyone has time to think about the environmental impact of this speedy development in Pune.

Many software firms have emerged and also many other private industries, this has created a huge job market for skilled workers. Government jobs have lost their status and importance. In my student days most brilliant students used to strive for careers in the government sector, because those jobs were considered secure (with all the extra money they could generate apart from their salary). The emergence of the private sector has changed this scenario completely, these jobs offer very attractive packages and this resulted in a change in the lifestyle of the middle class of India. The point of telling all this is that money has become a very essential commodity in India now, it's not like it was not but there never used to be such a blatant display of money in Indian society which we can see today. This development and uplifting of the middle class is very good, but at the same time disparity between rich and poor has become big. The gap has widened even more, there is only a certain class which is getting benefitted because of all this development. Along with these big apartment complexes, slums are also growing. Villages are shrinking, cities are growing beyond their capacity, they are overcrowded and all this is happening without any proper planning. This is what bothers me, it's all happening 'without any proper planning'. Currently, everyone is busy reaping the benefits of this phenomenon and is not bothered about its long-term effects.

People are feeling the need for money to match the lifestyle of other people around them. Competition is tough, pressure is immense and people are busy. It's good to compete but it should be a healthy competition, not a rat race where everyone is chasing others without knowing what the ultimate target is. One example of senseless competition can be seen in the car market. Today almost all major car manufacturers have their shops in India and one can see almost all expensive cars on Indian roads except hybrid car models. This is because it's not cool to have hybrids yet. BMWs, Mercedes, and Audis are status symbols and people like to have them but not the hybrids. No one even thinks about the environment while buying a car. This consciousness about our surroundings, about the impact of our actions on the environment should come along with the development of sustainable growth. Street vendors are still there and they still sell very good stuff but many people buy the stuff from malls, use of public transport has decreased significantly. All these social and economic changes have made people feel the need for more money even more.

Having the desire to earn money is not bad at all, living a comfortable life is good but it's also necessary to be conscious about energy consumption. The importance and need of money can not be denied or ignored but its necessity beyond certain limits can definitely be questioned. Everyone has to decide their own limits and work towards it, it can not be uniform for everyone. Pursuing our dreams is necessary, but we should check from time to time whether the dream we are pursuing is our own or forced on us by society. If we do this reality check from time to time then we all will realize the real value of money and can make our lives much more happy and comfortable.

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What if others don't care?

Human activities impact the environment, and there is enough data to demonstrate this. I try to follow a certain lifestyle where I try to minimize the impact of my behavior on the environment. It is also true that every living thing lives at the cost of another living thing (vegetarians and vegan people should stop thinking that they don't kill anything to feed themselves, we all do that). Our existence on this planet is bound to have some impact on this planet, whether we like it or not. We all need to consume things to survive, we all generate waste and our consumption and waste generation capacity is increasing day by day. What do we think about this? Do we care? Most of us don't. We think why should I care if others don't? Whatever will happen to others will happen to me also so why care?

Whenever possible I share my thoughts with my kids and people around me about this topic. During my discussion I encourage them to reduce their carbon footprint, some people care to listen, some of them care to follow certain things but most don't care. They think if they can afford the luxury then why not use it? They are perfectly right in their thinking and this whole thing is not at all about whether you can afford to enjoy certain luxuries or not but it's all about whether you care about this planet or not? You can enjoy most of the luxuries and at the same time contribute towards the welfare of this planet, showing concern towards our planet doesn't mean going back to the stone age.

We can practice many small things in our lives that can bring huge change, things like not using an elevator to climb up anything less than 5 floors or not at all while coming down from any building, walking wherever possible, or using public transport if possible, try to share a ride or carpool whenever possible, use lights in the home more efficiently, etc. If many people follow these things it can save a lot of energy, and some of these habits even have health benefits. Energy consumption is at its peak on our planet and it's going to increase as more and more people start using vehicles and big homes because they can afford it. Because of this, it becomes even more important to use available energy more responsibly and efficiently. Justifying our own high energy-consuming lifestyle by saying that everyone is doing is not a proper thing to do. I know that one person can not create a huge impact or change things but he/she can definitely have some impact and that's what my goal is. I know people might laugh at my ways, might dismiss it as some fad, or might even question my understanding of current living standards but that's not going to stop me from practicing what I believe. I am not talking only about India but people all over the world need to be conscious about their energy use. In the US also there is a huge waste of energy. People all over the world need to analyze their use of energy and try to bring the necessary changes. India has a huge population so if Indians care for energy and manage their consumption I believe that its impact will be huge. We call our planet 'Mother Earth' and we show so little concern about her health and welfare. Everyone is concerned about their own biological mother and her health and does whatever is necessary to take care of her. Our Mother Earth has so many kids but unfortunately, very few care about her, and most of her kids think that it's not their responsibility. Poor Mother Earth even after having so many kids, providing them almost every necessary thing is facing abuse at the hands of her own kids.

I know that it's not that easy but in my experience, it's not that difficult. It's a little inconvenient to travel in crowded city buses and trains but things are much better than they were 10 years ago. I traveled on the PMT (city transit bus in Pune) bus a few days back and it was not that bad, at least it was better than the experience of driving a four-wheeler on crowded roads in Pune. Water wastage is another issue that bothers me. Administrators in India just don't want to accept that we need a better water management system. People face the same problems repeatedly, water cuts every year in Pune but refuse to learn any lesson from them. At least some people are thinking about rainwater harvesting and other options to conserve some water which is a welcome sign but in general, there is no general awareness about this issue. Traffic on roads is horrible, and everyone complains about it but no one is willing to set an example (and again same explanation that no one cares then why should I?). Honking has become a habit of Indian drivers, hardly a minute passes by where you won't hear honking on the road. I just don't understand why people need to honk so much (unless they believe others are driving in their sleep and they need to honk to wake them up). Yesterday I rode our bike for the (first time on this India visit) and didn't feel the need to honk even once, I don't think people understand how to use vehicle horns properly here. I wish they knew and cared about the noise pollution which is caused by this unnecessary honking.

My aim is not to list the problems that I see around me and only complain about them. I want to question the attitude, if others don't care why should I? We don't ask this question while buying a car, if someone is buying fuel fuel-efficient car then why shouldn't I? We don't ask a similar question when someone is doing some philanthropic work, I can list many more instances like this. In most of these situations people do whatever they want to do, they don't follow others but whenever it comes to following the rules and caring about the environment everyone wants others to start first. No one thinks why shouldn't I? I think we need to ask this question and ask it very honestly. I am sure even if others don't care many of us do care and we need to show that in our actions. Let's show that we do care.

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When the bird starts loving its cage

I wrote a few posts dealing with the situation of women in our society (with a special focus on Indian society) and also about the effect or contribution of various religions or scriptures towards the secondary treatment of women in this world. Attempts to give women equal rights, to prove that they are equal to men have been going on for many centuries. I am not the first or the last person to talk about this issue, many men, women, and organizations are involved in this moment of gender equality. Very often I used to wonder why many of these women who are subject to this prejudice and injustice don't feel that something wrong is going on and resist it? Why after so many years of work still the situation is not very different in some parts of the world. Why still it is expected that women should behave like women (and we all know what this line means)?

When I talk with women around me (including women from my family) I see that they believe that women have certain 'defined roles' to play in society or family and there are certain things that are forbidden to them and they are not supposed to venture into those areas because it's not for them. These women resist, criticize and even attack other women who are trying to break these boundaries and enter into that forbidden land. I wonder if this is the case where after living in the cage for centuries the bird starts loving the cage, feels safe inside the cage, and starts thinking it belongs to that cage and the world outside the cage is not for him/her and because of this mentality scared to come out of it. Many of these women are very comfortable in their world, they don't even think that society or their own family is treating them unfairly, they totally believe that women should be treated in this way only. Few kind words or even nominal respect is enough for that woman to forget all her pain or insult and work again with all dedication for the same man or family who mistreated, insulted, or even beat her. The bird loves her cage so much that she is going to pay any price to remain in that cage because she thinks that there is no other place for her other than that cage.

This is the result of suppression for centuries, male-dominated society always treated women like physical objects. Propaganda by many religions and their books about women and their role in society also didn't help women. Religion made women sacred but not equal to men. Many religions and scriptures that consider 'moksha' or liberation from this cycle of birth and death as the ultimate goal of human life consider women as a major obstacle for men in achieving that goal. I don't know what is the logic for this. Why it's not the other way? All major religions of the world don't treat women very kindly, still they all have many dedicated women devotees. I wonder if any of these women loving their cage think about this or not, the situation won't change until these women start asking these questions whenever they read or hear anything discriminating against their gender anywhere. They should question any theory or hypothesis (no matter from which religion or culture) that discriminates against them based on their gender. Many feminist movements that have been going on for centuries are important and are playing their role in making things better for women, trying to empower them but what I feel lacking is the role these suffering women should play in this war. If these women start asking these questions, and confront these issues whenever they face them this will make the task of these movements comparatively easy. If even after all these movements and attempts to make them aware of their rights many women are not willing to fight their own battle, this makes me think that somehow they are comfortable with their situation in society and don't want to change, that means they are scared to come out of that cage or they started loving it.

Only women themselves can solve this problem, no one can force them to come out of that cage and fight, if they are not willing to fight then the battle will be surely lost. It's wrong to force someone to fight if he/she is not willing to do it. They should realize that it's not about hurting their family or against any culture or they should not worry about what people will say about them if they rebel but it's all about their self-respect and rights. They can choose which way they want to fight but they should fight, these things are not going to change on their own. For centuries these efforts and movements have been going on but still, a lot of work needs to be done and the major reason for this situation is the lack of full cooperation from women. If the bird in a cage wants to fly in the free sky first it should have the desire to come out of its cage and make efforts to open the closed door, until it does that the cage is not going to disappear on its own. I am waiting when the bird will start fighting its own battle rather than waiting for someone else to rescue it. If it fights its own battle then only it can make itself totally free. Only women have the power to make themselves free, in most countries, enough help and encouragement are available now they have to step up. I hope after a few years from now I or no one has to write about women's suppression and their condition in society, I hope that this bird will stop loving its cage and come out of it and start flying.

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Why do people cheat?

Actually, no one teaches us the basics of cheating. Even as a child many times we try to cheat or lie to cover up our mistakes or to get some things and we label them as child pranks. Lying is an integral part of cheating, they are two sides of the same coin, above question can be reframed as Why do people lie? We all use different excuses from time to time to get away with some things that we want to avoid. Technically we all lie at some time or other in our lives and we don't even notice it or don't even realize that we are lying, even if somebody points out our mistake we don't take it seriously because we believe that as long as it doesn't harm anyone or if we are not using it for some personal gain or very selfish motive lying fine. We strongly believe that it doesn't qualify as cheating or lying if it doesn't harm anyone. 

We start the act of cheating or lying at a very young age without even knowing that we are doing it. If you observe carefully it comes to us naturally, we have to teach kids not to lie or not to cheat but they learn these things on their own or we can say it is natural. No parent teaches their child the art of cheating or lying but all kids do it as a child. Even in the ancient scriptures like Mahabharat or Srimad Bhagavatam, we can see that there are many instances where characters like Krishna used cheating or lying to their advantage. Krishna as a child was involved in many pranks which involved stealing, telling lies to her mother, and things like that. All Hindus read these stories with devotion without realizing that somewhere it creates an impression that it's fine to cheat when it suits you. I am not saying that because of Krishna's character or some stories in scriptures where cheating is justified, people cheat, then people from other religions who read scriptures without such stories should not cheat or lie, but that's not the case, that's why I believe that this tendency of cheating comes naturally to us.

Normally we use or perform acts of cheating or lying to cover up something that we don't want others to know or in some situations where we think telling the truth might put us in some trouble. We do it out of fear of getting exposed or out of greed. Even in very serious and honest relationships (like husband-wife), people cheat, they try to cover up their dishonest acts or mistakes. Many use cheating out of fear of getting caught (this is common for children and kids), many use it to cover up their dishonest acts (in relationships) and many use it just because it's convenient to do it (we call it harmless because it doesn't hurt anyone). Temptation of cheating or lying under many circumstances is very difficult to resist, suppose you are planning to spend all your Sunday at home and your friend calls you for a game of tennis at 6 AM in the morning, you don't want to wake up that early on weekend but also don't want to hurt your friends feeling then you make some excuse like you are not feeling well or you have to go somewhere at 7 so can't come. We give some excuses like this many times and we don't even realize that we cheated or lied to our friend. 

So, if it's natural, is it okay to cheat or not? I think we should avoid it as much as possible but honestly, it's impossible not to do it totally. I think it depends on the situation, as long as it doesn't harm anyone, it's okay. I am not going to go into technical details about what qualifies as cheating or lying and what doesn't. I think people cheat or lie because it comes naturally, it's an act of defense that our brain uses to avoid certain uncomfortable situations. Does this mean we can teach our kids that it's okay to cheat or lie in certain situations? And then who will decide what are those situations? What if they develop a habit of cheating or lying? Aren't we teaching them something unethical or dangerous? It's very complicated. I think we can compare it with drinking (alcohol), it might be useful in moderate amounts, should be allowed after a certain age where one can use their judgment when to use it and when not, but better to avoid it totally if we can. My view is we should try to avoid it as much as we can because always remember that if we tell the truth we don't have to remember what we said last time.

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Difference between understanding and agreeing

Last week I had a long chat with one of my friends on the subject of religion and God. This was not the first time we had this discussion and I also know that this subject is a never-ending subject and almost everyone has strong beliefs or opinions about this subject. During this discussion many times my friend said that I was not able to understand what he was trying to tell me. I was surprised by that because we were talking in English (the language which I understand reasonably well) and I understood very well what he was trying to tell me, but I didn't agree with him on some of his points and that's when he repeatedly used this sentence. I think this happens during most of our discussions, whenever someone doesn't agree with what we say we tell them that they are not able to understand our point and that's why they don't agree with us. As if if they really understand our point of view, then they will or must agree with it. It might be true in some of the cases (that they really don't understand and that's why they don't agree) but this may not be the case all the time. Many times (like in this case) the other person may understand totally what we want to say and may still disagree with us. I think this is very normal in most arguments and we don't take it personally when that happens. But if we are arguing or discussing something that we totally believe or are passionate about (like religion or God), then we don't want to accept the fact that our core beliefs can be wrong (as another person is opposing it or arguing about them) or people might have some alternatives to these beliefs (their own beliefs which are totally different than ours). 

This made me think about the topic of today's post, why do we always think that if people don't agree with us they don't understand us and they don't know about that subject as much as we know? Why can't we live with the fact that we all have different personalities with different thinking patterns and are bound to have totally different views about the same issues? It's always good to share our views with others and discuss them or debate about them, it helps us to update our knowledge and improve our thinking process, improves our communication skills. Discussions and arguments are very essential part of our life and very necessary for our intellectual growth, but why can't we agree that we can have some disagreement and that's totally fine? I guess the root cause of this problem lies in our traditions or the way in which organized religion is preached. If you read most of the popular scriptures they have their own style of preaching and most of them want their followers to believe that all people who don't follow that particular religion are living the life of ignorant or fool. Nonfollowers are often considered as people walking on the wrong path, who fail to understand what is 'real' or 'ultimate truth' which that book claims to reveal to us. The same mentality makes us believe that people who don't agree with us don't understand what we want to say.

I discuss with many people various subjects ranging from science, politics, and religion. My aim is to share my views and get to know others' views, I started this blog with the same intention. This helps me to improve my own knowledge. I don't want everyone to follow what I say or believe, that's not the purpose of my discussions or blog posts. I just want to share my thoughts. Many times during our discussions I and the other person involved in the discussion agree that we both are right and there can be more than one way to solve the same problem. But this rarely happens when the subject of discussion is related to religion or God simply because we are never taught in those books that there can be any alternate way to whatever that book wants to teach us. I think still human race has not evolved to such a level where we all understand that it's foolish to kill others over religious differences. I agree that it never happens as frequently as it used to happen in the past but still, religious intolerance is one of the major problems and reason for riots and hatred in many societies and cultures.

So how to solve this problem or is there any solution for this? Of course, those books are not going to offer any solution even though they all try to teach us kindness, truthfulness, and love because they never teach us that there can be more than one way to reach the same destination. So, even after learning about love, kindness, tolerance, patience, and many good things from those books people are ready to kill others just because they don't agree with some of the things mentioned in that book or they follow some other book. It is true that in general people are tolerant towards each other and that's the reason our species still exists on this planet otherwise we have enough power and weapons to destroy this whole planet because of any disagreement. In business no company can say or accept that another company's product is better than theirs, are we doing the same thing in the case of religion? For me best possible way to solve this problem is to accept the fact that there is bound to be some disagreement on whatever opinions or beliefs we have and that's totally fine. If another person understands my point of view then it doesn't matter to me whether he/she agrees to it or not. I can explain to him/her my point of view until he/she understands it and after that, it's totally up to that person to decide whether he/she wants to agree with me or not. Discussions and debates are not battles or wars where one party has to win and the other should lose. Why can't it be like a duet song, where both say their part and express their feelings and end it with some or no conclusion. Let's stop fighting wars and start singing duets.


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Alternative medicine - does it really work?

Ayurveda is an Indian system of traditional medicine, it is also considered a Hindu system of traditional or alternative medicine. Alternative medicine is very popular in India and a few other countries from the same region like China, Sri Lanka, Nepal, Pakistan, and Bangladesh, and they have their own system of alternative medicine. Before the origin and popularity of allopathic medicine, most of the diseases and alignments were treated by using traditional medicinal knowledge. Ayurvedic texts are very old and they contain very detailed information about various diseases, their symptoms, and ways of treating or preventing them. I think it places more emphasis on prevention rather than cure, it recommends leading a very disciplined lifestyle with a balance of work, exercise, proper food, and peace of mind. But in today's world, it is often impossible to follow such a routine, some people can still manage to do that but most of us find it very hard.

Because of technological inventions new methods of diagnosis and treatment are developed in modern medicine. Since the birth of the pharmaceutical industry and some major breakthroughs in drug discovery, there has been a continuous supply of new drugs for life-threatening diseases. I think this revolution led people to believe that anything can be cured by available drugs and they can get away with their erratic lifestyle and food habits with the help of pills. In this scenario, there is little scope for traditional medicine as it doesn't offer instant solutions or reliable cures for many diseases (like cancer, high blood pressure, AIDS, etc.). The world population suffering from these alignments is increasing day by day and the cost of drug discovery is also increasing for many reasons. This led to a situation where practitioners of alternative medicine (as well as its manufacturers) started making tall claims that they could cure cancer or AIDS with the help and herbs or some other methods to attract patients towards them. There is no scientific study or reliable data that can validate these claims. Many people from developing countries (like India) who can't afford expensive treatments or medicines choose to go with these alternative medicines. Many of them even claim to benefit or get cured by these treatments. I think the placebo effect plays a major role here. Most of the formulations of traditional medicines are not tested in the lab for the concentration of their active pharmaceutical ingredients (API) and very often clinical trials are not performed. It's not that allopathy or modern medicine is a full proof cure without any problems, these medicines have side effects (sometimes very serious and life-threatening), sometimes pharma companies make some mistakes or there were some instances of professional malpractices, but overall, the pharma industry is doing a decent job in serving patients. The modern pharma industry has set protocols for drug development and its clinical trials. Agencies like the FDA (in the US) try to monitor drug development and introduce new regulations from time to time to make the process of drug discovery and consumption more safe and reliable. However, similar things can not be said about traditional medicines as they don't have any controlling or regulating authority like the FDA and because of this there is a lot of inconsistency in their quality and performance.

In today's world we can not depend on some system that was in use several hundreds of years ago, it's really sad that in India we could not make proper use of this knowledge to develop drugs of our own. Many big pharma companies developed drugs from natural products (Ayurved is all about using natural products) but in India, we failed to use this traditional knowledge and also failed to use modern discoveries in various fields to improve this knowledge. There is still hope that this situation can be changed but people should not be emotionally attached to this knowledge and should be open to accepting some criticism and able to analyze it without any bias. If we can do this then I am sure we are bound to gain many good things out of this. Every culture has a tremendous amount of traditional knowledge, we need to explore these resources and use these treasures for our own benefit.

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References:
1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayurveda
2. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Medicine
3. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allopathic_medicine

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Listening- a very important gift

Listening is one of the very basic skills that most humans possess, but how many of us think that it's one of the very important qualities that we have? We all love to speak and express our opinions. Many of us take classes or courses to improve our public speaking skills, but not many of us are patient enough when it comes to listening. If we see our development from childhood, most of us first learn to listen and then slowly we learn to speak. We are born with the power of listening, without that it's very difficult to learn the art of speaking. As life progresses we forget that listening is an art and a very important quality to have, all of us focus heavily on speaking, and expressing ourselves but totally ignore the listening part. We take it for granted that whatever we speak people will listen and very often forget that we also need to listen to others.

Many times it happens that we are in some meeting or in conversation with some person or listening to a song, physically we are there, but our mind is somewhere else, we don't realize when one song ends and another begins or we wake up only when people start clapping at the end of seminar. So, it seems it's very difficult for most of us to focus our attention in one place while listening. Nowadays we love to multitask and we like to check our emails, update our Facebook page, or browse the internet while listening to seminars, sitting in a classroom, or even chatting with our loved ones. We are almost sure that listening does not require our full attention and many things can be done while listening, but the funny thing is when someone else does the same while we are talking then we get upset and blame them for not paying 'full attention' to whatever we are saying. Very often a nice discussion turns into a fierce argument when both parties involved in the discussion stop listening to each other and try to force their own opinion on the other person. One can see that a lack of patience (and listening requires a lot of it) can create troubles anywhere and believe me practice of listening improves our patience a lot.

Listening offers many benefits, one of the major ones is it improves our knowledge, you can rarely get in trouble because of listening, speaking can land us in trouble if we are not careful with our words but listening won't do that. It also improves our patience. I think we all will agree to the fact that it requires a great deal of patience to listen to what others say. Most of the time it's very difficult to control the urge to interrupt the person in between to refute his/her argument and prove them wrong, this attitude often turns most of the discussions into arguments and both people involved in this act miss the great opportunity to learn from each other.

I believe that we all need to work on our stamina to listen to what others say. If we learn to listen to each other I believe we will start understanding each other better, whenever we listen to anything attentively and with patience it is possible to understand many minute things that we might miss and many times these minute things make all the difference between understanding and misunderstanding. The easiest thing we can do to avoid most of the misunderstandings in our lives is to listen patiently and then think over it before responding. It's not very difficult to do but also not as easy as it sounds. It can definitely solve many of our problems, it's worth trying.

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How 'Satyamev Jayate' affected me

Today (July 29th, 2012) was the last episode of Amir's show 'Satyamev Jayate.' For the last thirteen weeks every Sunday morning, I waited eagerly to watch this show, I can only compare this excitement I had with only two TV shows from the past 'Ramayan' and 'Mahabharat'. I am sure many people liked this show as much as I did and there must be few (or many) who didn't like it and must have their own reasons for it. I watched this show with my family, especially with kids, I wanted them to watch it to understand what problems Indians and Indian society face even today, what are the burning issues in Indian society, and also I was interested in their reactions to it.

Frankly, Amir's show didn't tell us anything new. All who spend their life in India know that these problems exist in Indian society (some of them are worldwide issues like child sex abuse, alcoholism or drug addiction, domestic violence, excessive use of pesticides, etc.). So, if it didn't say anything new then what was so special about this show? For me, the special thing was their presentation. The way Satyamev Jayate's team did the research for each topic, their selection of topics was very interesting and the way they presented the issues on the show was unique. This was not done on Indian television before. Mnay of the issues were really sensitive like female foeticide, malpractices in medical profession or manual scavenging and can generate quite angry and passionate reactions in India but they all were handled in very balanced way. Amir is not the first Hindi movie star who came on TV, many big stars debuted on TV and were very successful in whatever shows they did, but his show was totally different than all other shows from the past. It was a very rewarding experience, sometimes it took me back to the chawl where I grew up, sometimes it took me to my village in Uttar Pradesh (UP), sometimes it showed me the problems I faced in my own family, it was a very unique experience for me. I have seen or experienced most of the issues or problems discussed in the show that's why I can relate to them and maybe that's the major reason I liked this show. Many times I cried while watching the show, and many times I got angry after listening to victims' stories, but this show also gave me a lot of hope. The show also showed me that people want to change and many people are working to bring that change. 

In the last episode, they showed many examples where people or organizations working selflessly to bring that change. The main message it gave was that we can bring change, it's easy to blame the system, politicians, or fate for the problems we face. It's easy to expect that someone will stand up and raise their voice against these issues or that future generations might be able to solve these problems as they are better equipped and well informed, but it doesn't have to be someone else, we can fight and try to solve all these problems. We all can fight against these things together and win, and we can only win if we fight together. The change or fight has to start with a single person and that is me. If I am not prepared to raise my hand to fight then I don't have any right to complain and don't have any right to expect that others might solve these problems for me so that my kids won't face these issues when they grow up. This is the major difference between this show and other shows, it not only raised the question but also offered the solution and told me that 'I can be the solution'.

Thanks a lot, Amir for making this show, and thanks a lot to your team for its efforts and research. I know that shows like this can't bring change or revolution in society but they can definitely catalyze it, they can initiate the discussion and create awareness that can lead to revolution and it can bring that change. This show has done its job and now we have to do ours. Only greed, lust, and desires can not dictate our behavior we need to think beyond all these things. Humans are a result of millions of years of evolution and we need to behave like an evolved species. 

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