If it's not your cup of tea, then don't drink it

This tweet by Indian filmmaker Karan Johar grabbed my attention, he tweeted this in response to all tweets that criticized his participation in a controversial episode of AIB knockout roast. While I enjoy watching some stand-ups I am not a very big fan of them. I think most of them focus more on the negative aspects of life and use insults and vulgarity as major elements to create comedy. But these shows and such types of comedy are very popular and I recognize why it is so popular. These comedians also push the limit to the extent that it sounds sometimes offensive or derogatory but that's how it is. These shows are not part of any TV channels that are meant for family audiences and they give proper disclaimers before the show for people who don't know what are they getting into. This particular AIB roast also comes with a disclaimer about its adult content, so, people who are not comfortable with such things should not watch it, it is as simple as that. 

Everybody claims to have a sense of humor as it is a cool thing to have but very few actually have it. It is easy to laugh at others and pass comments about others but it is very difficult to laugh at yourself, very few people dare to do that. Comedy forms like satire and most stand-up shows are not for people who don't can't withstand ridicule and insult. In India, this form is relatively recent, it is not that we didn't have comedy shows but their format was different and the focus was always on so-called clean comedy, so, I am sure many will find it difficult to adjust to this new style of comedy. I was stumped when I saw the first stand-up on YouTube when I came to the US, I was surprised to see how people could tolerate and laugh at such racist, sexist, and insulting comments. But then I realized that this form of comedy is not everybody's cup of tea, I can't watch some of these shows as I don't enjoy the contents of them but that doesn't mean that I can stop others from watching them. 

I managed to watch this show when it was still there on YouTube. It is funny, I enjoyed most of it and yes, it is really vulgar and filthy at times but the show puts this warning right in the beginning so you know what to expect. I have no complaints about the contents of this show, I didn't like some things about it, but that's my problem. I can't demand an apology from participants for using abusive language towards each other, that will be the stupidest thing to do. There are many things that we see around or watch on TV or in movies that don't suit our taste, we are free to reject them and even to register our protest in the strongest possible words. But to question a person's right to express their thoughts is a sign of a regressive mindset. I hope this controversy is settled soon, this is such a waste of time. India has much bigger problems to deal with than worrying about the contents of some comedy roast. I even found some parts of a very popular comedy show from one of India's TV channels "Comedy Nights with Kapil" very sexiest and insulting to women, so I stopped watching it and if I watch it I do it at my own risk, I can't demand an apology and ban just because I don't like it. I hope adults learn to behave like adults and stop wasting time on such petty issues. Like Karan Johar tweeted, if it's not your cup of tea, then don't drink it. If you drink it by mistake, then don't cry foul or abuse the makers, just laugh at your own stupidity and move on and be careful next time.

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