This is blatant and shameless display of male chauvinism

It seems there is some sort of competition among some Indian political leaders about making more derogatory comments about sexual violence against women. This blatant display of male chauvinism is sickening, unfortunately, this is not a new or recent phenomenon. Apart from Samajwadi Party leaders like Mr. Mulayam Singh, who said that young boys do these types of mistakes (rapes) in youth rage and should not be punished very harshly for this, or Mr. Abu Azmi, who said that women who have sex outside marriage should be punished, there are many whose outrageous statements are ignored for the lack of media coverage. There are some who suggest that Mr. Modi's wife must be happy that finally he accepted her publicly. These are not some isolated incidents, there are many people across the party lines who share similar views. Please remember that these leaders are not some new entrants in politics they are experienced and seasoned politicians who very well know the meaning of these statements and also know the political benefits associated with them. Such statements not only reflect the male chauvinist nature of society but also show the misogynist society that tolerates such behavior.  

Rape is a heinous crime, it hurts the victim not only physically but also emotionally, and it leaves a permanent scar on their minds, not taking this crime seriously is another crime. Only insane or insensitive people can trivialize it. Offenders who commit rape must be given harsh punishment by law, at the same time awareness should be spread among youths which can help to minimize these incidents. Strong and effective law along with aggressive awareness campaigns is the only way to tackle these types of problems. These politicians are not helping this cause by making these types of statements. Politicians can go to any extent to gain political benefit, they can justify riots, rapes, or any other heinous crimes, there are ample examples of these incidents. 

What prompts these people to make these types of statements? Why do people allow such politicians to win the elections even after making such misogynistic statements? The reason has to be that there is a large section of society that still agrees with these statements. They still believe in male superiority and support male chauvinism. These people don't come from some backward areas or belong to an uneducated class but there are highly educated or literate folks also who believe in all this. These are people who cite examples from mythology or from history to justify Mr. Modi's action of leaving his home which resulted in the abandonment of his wife. No matter for what purpose Mr. Modi left his house and what he achieved I wonder how people can justify his action of abandoning his wife, not bothering about her for so many years, and still, not providing any legal rights as a wife. I also feel dismayed over these people now telling that woman that she should feel honored and lucky that a person of Modi's stature finally accepted officially her as his wife. It is true that whatever happens between husband and wife is their personal matter but when anyone is running for public office then their past and present actions are scrutinized by the media and public, this is a common practice all over the world. Any such act by a prominent public figure can send a wrong signal to people. The same people who get influenced by such actions then try to justify rape as some trivial mistake committed in youth rage. These people might even expect the victim to pardon the offender if for whatever reason the rapist offers to marry the victim after a brutal rape and might even expect her to feel lucky that the rapist is doing this huge favor to her. 

This type of mindset is not only disgusting but also very dangerous, it not only tries to trivialize the crime but also encourages it. If people cannot stop these incidents at least they can try not to encourage them. Yes, sometimes some of these laws are misused for some selfish gains, this should not be encouraged and all such cases should be dealt with equal seriousness and sincerity. Sometimes people misuse certain laws but that does not diminish the need to have strict laws, we just need a more efficient, sensitive, and transparent system to deal with such cases so that these laws are effectively implemented. Women's issues are important in any society but they are more important in societies where male chauvinism is so predominant. If people like us don't oppose such actions then these people won't stop making such statements and demeaning women. Women need all the support and help to deal with these problems. No doubt that women need to empower themselves to fight this battle on their own but the support from all sections of society is equally important and crucial. We all can help to deal with these types of problems at least by strongly raising our objection to such statements and not voting for such people. These politicians also should not get away easily after making such mistakes or statements, at least they should face some electoral loss. Display of male chauvinism is always shameless but now it's becoming so blatant and widespread that we cannot afford to ignore it.

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[Copyright: Vinay Thakur. Please contact the author for re-posting or publishing]

Links:
1. India’s pro-rapist lobby
2. Mulayam says ‘wrong’ anti-rape law should be amended
3. Women who have sex outside marriage should be hanged: SP leader Abu Azmi
4. Meet India's league of insensitive politicians